Hotwifing

Well let the parties begin:

Wow, last week was so busy. I have been so stressed out over my potential promotion and evaluation I have had no sex drive whatsoever. Friday was my evaluation, and I was recommended for my next promotion… woot! But the aftermath of stress and anxiety is just now coming to a close. I have had sex with “S” three times in the past five days, but each time has been riddled with issues. My cock has seemed to have a mind of its own and will get hard and soft then hard then soft repeatedly throughout our love making session. I get frustrated which does not help anything. “S” has been thoughtful and helpful and in the end we both “get off” but I think the residual stresses of last week are hanging on to my subconscious.

“J” and “S” are talking on a regular basis and we have spoken on many occasions and he is a really nice guy. “S” and I continue to find him comfortable and are looking forward to meeting him in a few weeks. I am looking forward to the whole MFM experience and the funny thing is, is that it has not quite sunken in with “S” how it is all going to work. LOL. I have shown her pics and videos of MFM interactions but I guess it will not quite sink in until she is in that “position”. :) I am looking forward  to it…

Till next time.

Lots of Laughs

“S” has been busy talking to a few potential men, and she found one that seems to really fit the bill. This man has a great sense of humor, he has had both “S” and I laughing our asses off. “S” is feeling very comfortable with this entire concept of “hotwifing” and now thinks it is really cool of me to suggest it.

This man she is speaking with is married but his wife is aware of his activity, so there is no fear of retaliation should she “discover” her husband’s activities. He is happily married as well and has no intention of leaving his wife, but they have an open marriage. Additionally, he is apparently very comfortable with my presence, and is looking forward to meeting me and “S” for a “meet-up”. I am thinking when we get settled we will have him over for a BBQ, and see where it goes.

He has described to “S” how he just wants to make her the center of attention and help me create as many “O” faces as possible. I am really all for that and am getting excited about it myself.

Busy yet active

Wow, things have really been hectic lately. “S” and I are preparing to move to a new location for work, and the whole, “Get everything packed and ready for movers.” is kicking our asses.

“S” has set up a profile on an adult dating site and has received over 100 views just within the past 4 days. She has responded to several of them and there is one in particular who seems like a good fit, with one exception; he was originally looking for a woman to date and see with out the accompanied baggage of the husband. But, one of the “rules” “S” and I developed was that this was to be a shared event, I am not wanting anything to do with the lover but I have to be present. The gentleman we have been speaking to on a more regular basis, is very hesitant to commit to anything due to my potential presence.

He is very attracted to “S” and I think she has been putting him at ease in regards to joining the two of us. “S” and I discussed that the possible lover seems to be warming to the idea, as he becomes more and more comfortable with “S”. I am thinking after a couple months I will introduce myself to him and hopefully cure any fears or concerns he may have.

With the stress of the move and other factors “S” and I have slowed down our love-making down to once every other day vs. everyday. I cannot wait for the move to be over, and to get settled into our new location but it will be a couple months still. :{

Oh well, no worries I will continue to post as events occur and/or change.

Hotwifing hits the dating services

Well after my last post I have to say “S” has really embraced the idea of hotwifing. While I know she is primarily doing it for me, there is definitely a part of her that is stimulated, and this truly excites me.

“S” created a profile on an adult oriented dating service and has had multiple responses and is actively chatting with a couple of them. I was slightly surprised that she preferred older men 35-45 rather than the younger ones but she informed me that she would rather have a man who is mature and not trying to compete with me for her attention. Truly I agree with this. I am not insecure in myself at all but this is to be a pleasant experience for both of us and I don’t think I need to be put into a defensive position.

Right now the men she has shown an interest in have been very nice, and I think as long as the physical chemistry is there will work out well. I know she will be talking to them for a few months while we are in transition to my new work location, but once we get settled it will be interesting to see where this goes.

“S” did have one day when she began her profile where she felt uncomfortable as she did not feel right “cheating” on me. I had to reassure her that she was not “cheating” as I was fully aware of her activities and anything that did arise I would be a participant. I also told her that we are the ones who make the rules for our lives and our marriage, and as long as we are both comfortable with our situation the term “cheating” is relative.

I know she is getting turned-on by the conversation with these men and the thought of this developing into something physical. I am here for her the whole way and getting excited as I watch her during this process.

Returning from the second honeymoon

Well the wife and I have returned from our second honeymoon. We had a great time taking hikes in the Alps and truly enjoying each others company. I tried to spice things up a bit during the trip there by challenging my wife to flash her breasts to one complete stranger during the trip but unfortunately “S” chickened out… LOL

But everyday was filled with beautiful scenery and spicy sex. One night she came out on the patio of our hotel room with nothing on beneath her night gown. She pulled up her nightgown and began touching herself. The position she was in allowed me to have a perfect view of her pussy, as well as several other people should they have emerged onto their patios. I don’t know if anyone else saw her touching herself but the thought of it caused my penis to engorge and later I spent my time showing her how much I appreciated her.

“S” is becoming more open to the idea of “hotwifing” but she still has her concerns in regards to my reaction to her being with another man. She had once had a threesome “FFM” with an ex and “S” explained how she had to push back feelings of guilt and jealousy. I tried to explain the difference between the two situations, and I believe my wife understands but I will continue to pursue this course until its completion.

I will let you all know how things progress. Please send me comments, to let me know there are those reading these postings.

Going on a second honeymoon

I am excited as my wife and I will be leaving for about 4 days to go on a second honeymoon. We have several excursions planned around the Alps of Austria, and I know we will have a great time.

I don’t know if anything as far as hotwifing will present itself but I will keep my fingers crossed. I will post when I get back on our various adventures. I know sex is definitely on the agenda, and as usual it will be hot and loving. I am sure I will come up with something to spice things up a bit; maybe a little exhibitionism, or public sex either which way I am looking forward to the end result.